help being detroyed everyday!

can anyone tell me what to do about a bully. they destroy my town everyday. I am just starting so I don't have a good enough army. This is all over some deer she wants! I am ready to quit because she is sucking the fun right out of my game. Her name is Arya and she is located at 8805 463. Please help as I don't want to quit. I just want the game to e fun again! :( Totally destroying my game.

can anyone tell me what to do about a bully. they destroy my town everyday. I am just starting so I don't have a good enough army. This is all over some deer she wants! I am ready to quit because she is sucking the fun right out of my game. Her name is Arya and she is located at 8805 463. Please help as I don't want to quit. I just want the game to e fun again! :( Totally destroying my game.

I attacked you twice!!! For your information the interaction with the others players is an important part of this game. You are not alone on the map and you knew that this is a multiplayer game!

Attacking  with 2 rams is not destroying your game! please dont exagerate like this, you're not credible at all!

can anyone tell me what to do about a bully. they destroy my town everyday. I am just starting so I don't have a good enough army. This is all over some deer she wants! I am ready to quit because she is sucking the fun right out of my game. Her name is Arya and she is located at 8805 463. Please help as I don't want to quit. I just want the game to e fun again! :( Totally destroying my game.

Unless Arya has researched destructive siege weapons, only your army and possibly towers/palisade have suffered damage.  This is not insurmountable. 

http://www.totemtribe.com/find/?q=defending+your+towns

Read those forum threads if you want to know what to do. 

There is another option....you could try relocating somewhere else.  By relocating, i mean deleting your hero and starting a new one.  There are some very strong leaderism players that enjoy the PVP part of the game.  I know Arya to be a strong and very aggressive player, this does not make her a 'bully', it just means she enjoys a different part of the game that you do.  Maybe if you try relocating, you will be lucky to land next to more peaceful players that enjoy the 'farming' part of the game as much as you do.  Just a thought :) :)